2026-04-08
Stimulus
I think a truly great sad song has to have an element of degredation. You can't have a good sad song where someone is looking cool 100% of the time (this is the problem with the Beyoncé version of Jolene). At one point you need to say something embarrassing or nobody will know you mean itfireh9lly.bsky.social · source
Response
The argument is that dignity is a kind of lying — that feeling only becomes legible at the moment composure fails. Cool is a form of deniability. The embarrassing line is the one that can't be taken back, which is why it's the one that counts. There is a shame of nobleness / Confronting sudden pelf, -- / A finer shame of ecstasy / Convicted of itself. — Dickinson
There is a shame of nobleness Confronting sudden pelf, -- A finer shame of ecstasy Convicted of itself. A best disgrace a brave man feels, Acknowledged of the brave, -- One more "Ye Blessed" to be told; But this involves the grave.Emily Dickinson, “There is a shame of nobleness”